I'm not about to keep explaining myself, my feelings, my boundaries, and my actions to somebody who is intent upon misunderstanding or ignoring me when I do. I cannot communicate with somebody who is not open to exchanging. Communication is what you do and how you behave, not just your words. Did you ignore me all day to play video games? Well guess what? This communicates with exquisite clarity that you values video games more than spending time with me. Does you ogle other women? you’re communicating that you’re disloyal. Communication with someone who is committed to misunderstanding you or taking advantage of you, is absolutely useless and you’re better off preserving your energy and moving on. Communication is happening 24 hours a day, whether the you realizes it or not. Everything you say, everything you don’t say, everything you do or don’t do...ALL of it communicates something important. Even the most nuanced micro-expression on our faces are also the forms of communication. Actions speak louder than words.
ទិញរបស់ញ៉ាំយកទៅអោយ my bf ដល់កន្លែងធ្វើការ វាមិនខ្ចីចង់ចុះមកយក ពេលមកយកវាមិនខ្ចីចង់មើលមុខឯង។ ឯងជិះមកវិញ មិនទាន់ផុត ១០០ ម៉ែត្រផង វាឆាតថា ឈប់ទិញអោយវាទៀត។ វាចង់ វាចេះទិញផឹកស៊ីហើយ។ អញ គាំងម៉ាជីវិត ហេតុតែអញកម្មក្រាស់ជាមួយហែង ហែងចាំមើល តែអញមានកូន អញទាត់ក្បាលហែងចោលហ្មង
ម្នាក់ប្រុសនិងស្រលាញ់មិត្តខ្ញុំ តែមិត្តខ្ញុំមិនស្រលាញ់ ហើយក៏មកស្រលាញ់ខ្ញុំ ខ្ញុំក៏សួរមិត្តខ្ញុំបើខ្ញុំទាក់ទងគេ ខឹងអត់?? She said : ខឹងស្អីបើវាមិនបានស្រលាញ់ផងគ្រាន់តែអាណិត តាមទិញនេះទិញនោះអោយរហូត… សួរមិត្តខ្ញុំហើយ ខ្ញុំក៏សម្រាចចិត្តមើលចិត្តគ្នាជាមួយម្នាក់ប្រុសនិង គិតថាគេល្អម្លេស យកចិត្តទុកដាក់និងខ្ញុំ គេនិយាយរឿងគ្រួសារគេ គេទិញនេះទិញនោះអោយយើង គេថាគ្រាន់តែចង់ឃើញស្នាមញញឹមយើងតែប៉ុណ្ណោះ :3 យើងទាក់ទងគ្នាបាន1អាទិត្យ គេក៏ថាគេចង់ធ្វើជាមិត្តនិងខ្ញុំវិញព្រោះគេមិនចង់ឃើញខ្ញុំពិបាកចិត្តដោយសារគេ ( me : អាញថាមែនៗ style 99 មកទៀតហើយ) ខ្ញុំក៏ថា មិនមែនមកពីនៅស្រលាញ់មិត្តខ្ញុំណាហី?? He said : អត់ទេ គេពិបាកប្រាប់ណាស់គ្រាន់តែដឹងថាគេធ្វើចឹងដើម្បីចង់អោយខ្ញុំល្អ កុំអោយពិបាកចិត្តដោយសារគេ and he said : យើងទឹមតែទាក់ទងគ្នាទេចឹង ខ្ញុំនិងបំភ្លេចបានលឿន មិនអីទេ ( me : ច្បាស់ណាស់ ) បន្ទាប់មក ខ្ញុំក៏ព្រមតាមគេ មិនបានប៉ុន្មានផង ខ្ញុំក៏លឺថាគេទាក់ទងជាមួយមិត្តខ្ញុំវិញ ដែរជាមិត្តដែរប្រាប់ខ្ញុំថាវាមិនបានស្រលាញ់ម្នាក់ប្រុសនិងទេ ( me : ឆ្អែតណាស់តែយើងជាមិត្តនិងគ្នា ខ្ញុំមិនបានប្រកាន់ ហើយក៏ជូនពរគេទៀត😅 ខ្ញុំមិនចងើអោយមិត្តភាពខ្ញុំចប់ត្រឹមមនុស្សប្រុសម្នាក់ទេ ) ខ្ញុំទទួលស្គាល់ថាខ្ញុំ យំមែនព្រោះខ្ញុំ ស្ដាយចិត្តដែរជឿទុកចិត្តមនុស្សដូចយើង គិតថាគេល្អ បារម្មណ៍គ្រប់យ៉ាង មិនបានគិតថាអ្នកយកខ្ញុំជំនួសមិត្តខ្ញុំ ហើយលេងសើចនិងអារម្មណ៍ខ្ញុំមួយពេលបែបនេះ កុំធ្វើដាក់មិត្តខ្ញុំដូចដែរអ្នក ដែរអ្នកធ្វើដាក់ខ្ញុំ ពេលនេះអ្នកបានដូចបំណងហើយ អ្នកផ្ដាច់ទាំងស្នេហា និង មិត្តភាពពួកខ្ញុំ🙂 I forgive ya but we don’t needa keep in touch…respectfully.
(I have wrote my first sentence and deleted it so many times, I lost count. So here goes nothing.) ....When we first met, I had no idea how much you could mean to me. You stayed when I needed you most, you told me I'm loved, and you held my hands through one of the hardest times in my life. But my heart shattered when I say, it was a false start to my cruel fairytale. You have made me surrendered, I gave you my all. I had never felt so deeply for anyone, and you knew how to make me fell for you. Maybe my love spoiled you, because darling you have changed. From the woman who could no wrong, to your worst enemy. It could be the day I breathed the wrong way, asked you the wrong question, said what you did upset me, asking too many questions. Those things made you reset me. Am I to walk on eggshells around you if we want to be together? Am I just to be the person you pick up the phone whenever you feel like calling? Am I to be the one you apologize and make amends? Am I the one to always be dealt a lower hand? Is it wrong to want to feel loved my the person you feel so deeply for? Is it wrong to want your partner to care about you? Is it wrong to not want to be ignored for hours? I never regretted the love I gave you. But my biggest regret was I had convinced myself that you cared for months. I let it continued when I knew there was no way I can live with this forever. I used to think that having you smiling at me a few times was better than none. Having you for an hour to myself was better than not talking to you at all. How it broke my heart to admit the truth today, you had no idea how much you hurt me. I wonder if you cared, you probably don't. I don't think you ever did in the recent months. This is my peace offering to you, I'm leaving. DONE. I'm done making excuses for you, I'm done being treated like the person you hated. I'm most certainly done with being your last priority. I don't know what love should be, but I'm sure as hell our relationship isn't what love supposed to be. I'm writing this to all my girls out there, when things changed. You know. No matter how many times you have lied to yourself for him, you can't lie forever. If he truly wants to be with you, you will know. And when you do, leave.
Every time I drove by your house, I always stopped and stared, hoping to see you standing in front of the entrance, waiting for someone to answer the door like you used to. I remember when I brought you home and your mom made me a tuna sandwich and told me to eat a lot so I could grow faster. I miss the taste of her food and the picture of you standing calmly in front of the house. Today, I passed by your house again but I didn't see you there. The neighborhood was quiet; too quiet that it gave me a strange sense of calmness. It was like a void in my heart — calm but empty. I don't know why some people say that loss gets easier with time. It's been years, and the fact that I still haven't gotten used to your absence is a nuisance. Maybe in another universe I can still see you standing somewhere and waiting for me. But here it all ends too soon. So, make sure to have a good new life out there and promise me to love yourself well. I’ll love myself too. -owl
I hope you doing well my little Seth. I miss you so so bad. I miss the way we talked. I miss how lovely you are to me. I miss how gentle you are. I miss the way you called me my little Junn, Junn Junn, baby Junn... and I also miss your questions, are you tired? where are you now? what are you doin? have you eaten?... Even though we met by online but i admit that i like you for real. and yeahh, if we are meant to be, we will meet each other again someday. Please be safe, take careeeee, get some rest and dont forget to drink water a lot naaaaa. Sethh San, Anata ga koishī.
I have been friends with this guy for a few months now, but I only recognized him for about 2-3 weeks. I think I am developing feelings for him. The main thing is that he is very active and caring, so with all of his kindness, I tend to think that I am special, despite that, he does that to literally everyone. Should I risk everything and ask him to go on a date or something? I know that he will definitely friendzone me because I joined the "GANG" now.
Why does girl don’t love someone who love her, but she love someone who hurt her? I wonder why this happened to me? I am always unlucky with love, always always love one side. I try to much to stop my feelings that falling in him but it doesn’t work. I haven’t confess to him yet but I already give up twice because it seems like he will never interested in me. What should I do? Should I move on and find someone or confess to him? I can’t do everything these days , I stuck with this 😭😭 Please help me….!
Is it even real?