ស្រលាញ់គឺលះបង់ទោះដឹងថាឈឺ
រឿងខ្លះក៏បានដឹងទៅហើយថាចុងបញ្ចប់ទៅជាយ៉ាងណា បន្តទៅមុខមិនរួចមានតែបញ្ចប់ បើអ្នកមិនអាចផ្តល់ក្តីសុខអោយគេបានទេ ក៏ដោះលែងគេអោយទៅផ្លូវគេចុះបើវាមិនមែនជារបស់យើងទោះខំប៉ុនណាក៏នៅតែមិនមែន
You're not sorry for hurting someone. You're not sorry for taking advantage of someone else's feeling for you. You're not sorry for making them feel low and pathetic. You're only thinking that you feel sorry because that's the only way to reassure yourself that you weren't actually in the wrong but, in fact, that doesn't actually stop you from repeating it. There's no excuse for you. You never care but it would have at least been better if you didn't care enough to actually care to hurt someone who's currently yearning for you. It's crazy how those who hurts will only continue to hurt, the excruciating pain. When you can't overcome the trauma and agony, you were seen to be weak and that you're the only one allowing yourself to get hurt. That could be true but that doesn't always mean that they aren't trying to break free. When reality has seeped in and escaping is succeeded, "I" will understand how relieved it would be and that's what I set to believe. You are not sorry and I am not seeking for your sympathy on the torment you have caused. Regrets and joys are mixed up in a resulted development but let's all be enlighten by it. With hopes.
រឿងខ្លះក៏បានដឹងទៅហើយថាចុងបញ្ចប់ទៅជាយ៉ាងណា បន្តទៅមុខមិនរួចមានតែបញ្ចប់ បើអ្នកមិនអាចផ្តល់ក្តីសុខអោយគេបានទេ ក៏ដោះលែងគេអោយទៅផ្លូវគេចុះបើវាមិនមែនជារបស់យើងទោះខំប៉ុនណាក៏នៅតែមិនមែន
No matter what kind of questions I’m bringing up it will only lead to one thing. On how you wanna be with yourself. You can’t tell someone to stop thinking and be chill with you. You make me feel like I’m asking a lot from you, while I only want 1hour to 2 hour of your 24 hour divided into any given time of the day, to do little things that make someone you care about feel a little special. It’s that kind of thing you gave up which means a lot to her. The time that you decided to spare to make her happy, does it make you a little happy to see her happy?
I have a secret that I need to tell. A secret that has made me live in hell. It was quite a long time ago, I was s€xual harassed by someone I trusted and thought of as family. I alternated between guilt for let it happened, feeling dirty and unable to get clean. I haven’t told my parents or his parents because I’m sacred of victims blaming culture in this society. I don’t even told my friends about it either not because of victims blaming but I just can’t talking about it. Lately, something so miniscule triggered me and it’s unbearable. It ended up being connected to my nightmare again and it changed my quality of life. I thought that it was no longer bothered me anymore but it doesn’t. I’m terrified every time I smells the same cologne that he used. I went through “I hate all men” phase. It’s certainly changed my view of men, I’ll be never be able to look at men entirely the same way again. It’s my first time to talk about it since it has happened. Thanks, admin for letting me share it with KnongJit.
ទំនាក់ទំនងស្នេហាមួយអាចរលូននៅបានល្អអាស្រ័យភាពស្មេាះត្រង់ សេចក្ដីស្រឡាញ់ ការផ្ដល់តម្លៃ ការបារម្ភ ការយកចិត្តទុកដាក់ជាមួយគ្នាទៅវិញទៅមក ការផ្ដល់ពេលវេលាឲ្យគ្នា មិនថារវល់សិក្សាប្ញធ្វើការយ៉ាងណានេាះទេក៏នៅតែឆ្លៀតពេលវេលាសម្រាប់មនុស្សខ្លួនស្រឡាញ់ មិនលួចលាក់ក្រេាយខ្នង ...។ ស្ថិតក្នុងទំនាក់ទំនងស្នេហា តែងតែមានការប្រច័ណ្ឌ ការអន់ចិត្តនឹងគ្នា ការខ្វល់ខ្វាយ មិនចង់បាត់បង់បុគ្គលដែលខ្លួនស្រឡាញ់ចេញពីជីវិត តែទេាះជាយ៉ាងណា ត្រូវរៀនយល់ពីគ្នា រៀនអន់ឱនឲ្យគ្នាទៅវិញទៅមក រៀនអធ្យាស្រ័យ មានរឿង/បញ្ហាអ្វីគួរពិភាក្សាគ្នា(កុំលាក់ទុករួចធ្វើហីៗដាក់គ្នា)។ ផ្ដាំទៅមនុស្សប្រុសជាពិសេស បើមានមនុស្សស្រីម្នាក់នៅក្បែរខ្លួនហើយ កុំលួចទាក់ទងអ្នកផ្សេង កុំឲ្យអ្នកដទៃមើលមកថានាងជាមនុស្សល្ងង់. គួរមើលថែអ្វីដែរខ្លួនកំពុងតែមានឲ្យបានល្អ កុំឲ្យមានវិប្បដិសារីនៅថ្ងៃក្រេាយ។ សង្សារងាយរកនេាះទេ តែមនុស្សដែលស្រឡាញ់យើងជាយើង នៅក្បែរយើងគ្រប់កាលៈទេសៈ លះបង់ដើម្បីយើង មិនខ្លាចក្នុងការបង្ហាញអ្នកឲ្យក្រុមគ្រួសារ មិត្តភក្តិនិងមនុស្សជុំវិញខ្លួនគាត់បានស្គាល់អ្នក ខឹង/អន់ចិត្តតែមិនដែលឈប់ស្រឡាញ់អ្នក ទេាះអ្នកធ្វើខុសក៏ផ្ដល់ឱកាសឲ្យអ្នកកែប្រែ តែងអភ័យទេាសឲ្យអ្នក ផ្ដល់ពេលវេលាសម្រាប់អ្នក ស្មេាះត្រង់នឹងអ្នកគឺមានងាយរកបាននេាះទេដូច្នេះបើអ្នកមានមនុស្សល្អក្នុងរង្វង់ដៃអ្នកហើយត្រូវមើលថែឲ្យបានល្អ។ កុំឲ្យដៃគូរមានអារម្មណ៍ថាខ្លួនមានbf/gfដូចអត់មាន។ អ្វីដែលសំខាន់គួររៀនយល់ពីគ្នាឲ្យបានច្រើននិងផ្ដល់ពេលវេលាឲ្យគ្នាផងដែរ(call, text,នៅក្បែរគ្នា...)។សង្ឃឹមថាមនុស្សប្រុស/មនុស្សស្រីដែលបានអានសារមួយនេះនឹងស្មេាះត្រង់ជាមួយដៃគូររបស់ខ្លួន ហើយត្រូវចងចាំផងមុនពេលចង់បេាះបង់នរណាម្នាក់គួរនឹកឃើញដល់ពេលចង់បានគ្នាផង អនុស្សាវរីយ៍ រឿងរ៉ាវធ្លាប់ឆ្លងកាត់ ធ្លាប់តស៊ូជាមួយគ្នាទាំងប៉ុន្មាន កុំបេាះបង់នរណាម្នាក់ងាយៗ។ ត្រូវតស៊ូជាមួយគ្នារហូតតទៅ។ hope everyone likes this article.
-N💗 Im sorry for hurting you. It was childish of me to do that to you. I don’t expect u to forgive me. I wish I could take every ounce of pain u feel right now. I love you, always. #221020
How do people lied to you and still can sleep peacefully right next to you? I literally cannot. What’s the point in trying to hide the fact that you went out to some place? If I didn’t found out about it, you’re gonna remain silent too? You stuttered and surprised when I questioned you. Doesn’t that speak volume already? I know what you did, but I just remain silent and see how far you can hide all the things you did.
You know what happens to the person who you are pushing away? They’re starting to question themselves, their worth and feels so insignificant and powerless. I, myself questioned myself “ am I not good enough “. You know how much it hurts when I tried my best to stood by you while you’re pushing me away? Is it fun to doing so? I wanted to feel needed again. I wanted you to want me like you had before. I wanted you to lean on me, but that was the impossible task for you. Despite feeling so distant from you, I was there every time you needed to talk. We went from telling each other anything and everything to complete strangers. I feel like I don’t even know you anymore. I'd been pushed so deeply that there was no coming back. We went from the funny, the goofy texts to nothing at all. I’ll never stop caring. But if you decide to push me away, I’ll stay away. You pushed me too far, too fast and I couldn’t keep chasing after you.
Dear beautiful souls Breakups are hard, we all been there but you’ve got to ask yourself how many times can the same person break you. How many times can the same person let you down, there must come a time when you come to your senses. A moment when you realize your worth. Ask yourself these questions. is it worth being unloved. Is it worth being misunderstood. You knew that you deserve much more than that but you're letting this pain go on over and over again, and it keeps cycling. you cry, you heal, you make-up to break-up with no end. Ask yourself when is it enough, and if you can’t answer it, then it’s time. You must re-evaluate everything, take time on yourself , set standards for yourself and you were born to live, to love and to learn and never have to go through endless cycle.