Double Standard !

I got one question been wondering long time. if a man happens to be with another girl after a few month of his break up. Some people would call him " He must be a cheater, blah blah" but, if a woman happens to be with with another man after a few month of her break up. Some people would think " Finally she found her right ones..... " My questions is "Why? no matter what we do we always turn out to be a bad part ?" i just don't understand - that's all. #ZVI

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2025-08-14

If cutting me off helps your life in any way, I support ✌🏻

ម្នាក់ប្រុសនិងស្រលាញ់មិត្តខ្ញុំ តែមិត្តខ្ញុំមិនស្រលាញ់ ហើយក៏មកស្រលាញ់ខ្ញុំ ខ្ញុំក៏សួរមិត្តខ្ញុំបើខ្ញុំទាក់ទងគេ ខឹងអត់?? She said : ខឹងស្អីបើវាមិនបានស្រលាញ់ផងគ្រាន់តែអាណិត តាមទិញនេះទិញនោះអោយរហូត… សួរមិត្តខ្ញុំហើយ ខ្ញុំក៏សម្រាចចិត្តមើលចិត្តគ្នាជាមួយម្នាក់ប្រុសនិង គិតថាគេល្អម្លេស យកចិត្តទុកដាក់និងខ្ញុំ គេនិយាយរឿងគ្រួសារគេ គេទិញនេះទិញនោះអោយយើង គេថាគ្រាន់តែចង់ឃើញស្នាមញញឹមយើងតែប៉ុណ្ណោះ :3 យើងទាក់ទងគ្នាបាន1អាទិត្យ គេក៏ថាគេចង់ធ្វើជាមិត្តនិងខ្ញុំវិញព្រោះគេមិនចង់ឃើញខ្ញុំពិបាកចិត្តដោយសារគេ ( me : អាញថាមែនៗ style 99 មកទៀតហើយ) ខ្ញុំក៏ថា មិនមែនមកពីនៅស្រលាញ់មិត្តខ្ញុំណាហី?? He said : អត់ទេ គេពិបាកប្រាប់ណាស់គ្រាន់តែដឹងថាគេធ្វើចឹងដើម្បីចង់អោយខ្ញុំល្អ កុំអោយពិបាកចិត្តដោយសារគេ and he said : យើងទឹមតែទាក់ទងគ្នាទេចឹង ខ្ញុំនិងបំភ្លេចបានលឿន មិនអីទេ ( me : ច្បាស់ណាស់ ) បន្ទាប់មក ខ្ញុំក៏ព្រមតាមគេ មិនបានប៉ុន្មានផង ខ្ញុំក៏លឺថាគេទាក់ទងជាមួយមិត្តខ្ញុំវិញ ដែរជាមិត្តដែរប្រាប់ខ្ញុំថាវាមិនបានស្រលាញ់ម្នាក់ប្រុសនិងទេ ( me : ឆ្អែតណាស់តែយើងជាមិត្តនិងគ្នា ខ្ញុំមិនបានប្រកាន់ ហើយក៏ជូនពរគេទៀត😅 ខ្ញុំមិនចងើអោយមិត្តភាពខ្ញុំចប់ត្រឹមមនុស្សប្រុសម្នាក់ទេ ) ខ្ញុំទទួលស្គាល់ថាខ្ញុំ យំមែនព្រោះខ្ញុំ ស្ដាយចិត្តដែរជឿទុកចិត្តមនុស្សដូចយើង គិតថាគេល្អ បារម្មណ៍គ្រប់យ៉ាង មិនបានគិតថាអ្នកយកខ្ញុំជំនួសមិត្តខ្ញុំ ហើយលេងសើចនិងអារម្មណ៍ខ្ញុំមួយពេលបែបនេះ កុំធ្វើដាក់មិត្តខ្ញុំដូចដែរអ្នក ដែរអ្នកធ្វើដាក់ខ្ញុំ ពេលនេះអ្នកបានដូចបំណងហើយ អ្នកផ្ដាច់ទាំងស្នេហា និង មិត្តភាពពួកខ្ញុំ🙂 I forgive ya but we don’t needa keep in touch…respectfully.

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2025-08-14

Wealth or love?

I can say that i’m a girl who comes from one of the most honorable family. i have everything but love...? All i want is a man who loves me as who i am and not take me for granted, not take me for advantage especially not loving me for my money? All the boys that came into my life only saw my status, they thought it was cool to have me as an ex. And for those who have a crush on me, always say “ you’re like a moon and i’m just a rabbit” why cant you see me as a normal person? We’re all equal? I just want a love that lasts, i just want a good man to stick by my side through thick and thin, forget about the status and wealth. I’ve always been unlucky in love and friendship. I just want a pure bond, i never see myself above everyone, and i’m willing to take down my wealth if it’s a wall that part us.

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2025-08-14

អារម្មណ៍ស្រឡាញ់

អារម្មណ៍ត្រូវគេស្រឡាញ់គឺល្អ តែអារម្មណ៍ដែលស្រឡាញ់គេគឺអារម្មណ៍មួយផ្សេងទៀតដែលពោរពេញទៅដោយការខ្វល់ខ្វាយ ការបារម្ភ ការហួងហែង តែក៏នៅតែជាអារម្មណ៍ល្អ មួយបែបផ្សេងពីអារម្មណ៍ដែលត្រូវគេស្រឡាញ់។ ខ្ញុំសប្បាយ និងពេញចិត្តជាមួយការស្រឡាញ់ដែលខ្ញុំផ្ដល់ឲ្យគាត់ ការស្រឡាញ់ពិតប្រាកដហើយជ្រាលជ្រៅ ច្បាស់លាស់ ចង់ឲ្យអនាគតខ្ញុំមានគាត់ គាត់ក៏មានខ្ញុំ ពួកយើងស្រឡាញ់គ្នា មើលថែគ្នារហូតទៅ។ ខ្ញុំមានអារម្មណ៍ថាខ្លួនឯងសំណាង ព្រោះបានស្រឡាញ់និងផ្ដល់ក្ដីសុខឲ្យមនុស្សម្នាក់ដោយអស់ពីចិត្ត មិនចាំបាច់លាក់បាំង មិនចង់ចាញ់ឈ្នះ។ និយាយច្រើនហើយ តែគ្រាន់តែចង់ប្រាប់អ្នកទាំងអស់គ្នាថា ក្នុងមួយជីវិត គួរសាកបើកចិត្តទទួលអារម្មណ៍ស្រឡាញ់គេ កុំខ្មាសអ្នកដទៃថាយើងងប់ងល់នឹងស្នេហាអី ព្រោះអារម្មណ៍នេះជាអារម្មណ៍ពិសេស មានន័យជ្រាលជ្រៅ។ To be loved is one thing. To be able to give that feeling to someone else is another. It's neither an embarrassment or a punishment. It's a feeling that should be cherished. I hope you all will be able to find someone who loves you and especially, find the feeling of loving someone truly. Love has no limits <3

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2025-08-14

Meeting you was a nice accident

It’s been 6 months since we've been apart. I’m happy for you two that you’re still getting in touch with each other. Do you know? things become worse day by day because the memories are killing me. I can say I cried a lot when I went outside without any of you. I always go to the place that we used to go, and I know it was a terrible decision how I ended the trio with my stupid reason.I hope you’re doing great living your best lives without me. Sometimes, I wanna text you guys and ask if you’re doing okay but I don’t want to bother you. I still miss our friendship, I miss how we used to sing together, I miss how we went to the café together. Take good care of yourselves. To my little crab eat your meals properly and to my big gorilla don’t always go to bed late. I love you guys and I will always do. I’m glad that I met you. #From_H_to_L_and_R

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2025-08-14

Why mom?

Why mom? Why do you have to make me feel this way? What have I ever done so wrong? You know, it is very hurtful and very tormenting when you, my mother, care so little of me. Why is it that when my younger brother got a minor cold, you would rush me to buy him medicine, to take care of him, and so on, but when I got tested positive of covid-19 because I have to go to work, you didn't even seem to care about it as a matter a fact, you didn't even want to buy me covid med, you told me I don't need covid med and just take normal coughing med, you thought paracetamol is enough? Just why do I have to feel all this unfairness? Should I just do you and everyone a favor and just take as much paracetamol as I can and just die? Would that have been better for everyone?

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2025-08-14

First and last

#firstandlastpt1 Everything start from me, it was my fault that fall in love with him. It was me who start to message him first everytime and he really friendly that make me feel he has feeling for me too. I spent 3 year to know his information and start to message him in 2019.I don't except he really talkative in message and I have good memories with each other since 2019-2020. As a girl who never had experience in love, I was so brave to proposal to him first and he reject me and said sorry. It's hurt me alot but I pretend to be okay and text him we still can be cousin like before. After that moment, I only text him whenever it's related to family issues. Someday I really miss how funny conversation I had with him even I start it first. 2021 I start to move on because I learn some advice through the book , listen to music and start to working outside cause I was a junior now. It's really work for me, I'm happy with book and my friend, we go out and had fun time and I thought I'm not into him fr. But in 2022 March, He start to message me first and I start to ignore but after 2 day ago, he talk about his family issues related to me. I decided to reply short message and he ask me to join his sister's wedding. I said yes cause we're cousin and live next to each other now. But....he make me disappointed in him again. I'll update next part 🔜

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2025-08-14

Important sister

I'm not sure what will you and others valued on this name "important sister". Sometimes, I feel abit down but whatever happens, this name won't change. I'm still keep you as my important one, no one understand it but I'm really hope you can feel me trust my speech. I used to hope that one day we separate then we go our own path, but your voice always feel heard by my soul. Whatever happens, we changed but I won't forget what you advised me. Distancing doesn't mean the soul break. Love you, all the best to my important sisters ❤

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2025-08-14

Those days

One day, we were mentally and physically inseparable, and today, you are trying to avoid me. All the good days we spent together, I hope you still remember those days like I do. The days we shared our personal feelings and daily lives’ activities. I hope those days wouldn’t be forgotten in just a short period of time. If I were to be granted one wish, I wish those days happened once again. Even though what comes after hurt both of us and could potentially hurt people we are with, those days were the best days I could ever ask for.

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